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"plaintext": "Enter a very wonderful concept that has gained a lot of science and research behind it: Gender self-care. As our trans brothers and sisters have shown us, there is no real limit on what we can do with our physical vessels to care for our mental well-being. With help, guidance, therapy, and appropriate medication you can basically achieve whatever outcome suits you. "
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