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  "path": "/advice/2026/02/miss-manners-i-care-for-my-gentleman-friend-but-i-love-you-feels-wrong.html",
  "publishedAt": "2026-02-14T08:00:00.000Z",
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  "textContent": "In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to a widow seeking advice on finding the right words for her gentleman friend when traditional phrases seem inadequate or inappropriate.",
  "title": "Miss Manners: I care for my gentleman friend but ‘I love you’ feels wrong"
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