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  "textContent": "Dutch pay = splitting bills\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n**Survey on Dating Expenses Among Unmarried Men and Women\n** Nationwide sample: 1,000 unmarried adults (500 men, 500 women, ages 25–39)\n\n\n\n\nHave you ever had conflict over dating expenses?\nNo: 78.5%\nYes: 21.5%\n\n\n\n\nWhat is a fair split of dating costs? (Unit: %)\n**Men 5 : Women 5 (50/50)\n** Men: 43.6%\nWomen: 34.0%\n\n\n**Men 6 : Women 4\n** Men: 35.2%\nWomen: 32.4%\n\n\n**Men 7 : Women 3\n** Men: 15.8%\nWomen: 19.4%\n\n\n**Men 8 : Women 2\n** Men: 3.8%\nWomen: 6.2%\n\n\n**Men 9 : Women 1\n** Men: 1.2%\nWomen: 7.8%\n\n\n\n\n**Average spending per date (won)\n** Men: 90,800 won (~$75)\nWomen: 68,400 won (~$46)\nOverall average: 79,600 won (~$52)\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n**Survey on Dating Expenses Among Unmarried Men and Women**\n“Average spending per date: 80,000 won ($57), most prefer a 50:50 split”\n\n\nQ. Have you ever had conflict over dating expenses?\nYes: 21.5%\nNo: 78.5%\n\n\nQ. What is a fair split of dating costs?\nMen 43.6% / Women 34% --> Prefer 5:5 (equal split)\nOther responses:\n6:4 (men:women) > 7:3 > 8:2 > 9:1\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n**High Cost of Living Era, What About Date Expenses?\n** Survey conducted on 414 men and women in their 20s-50s on October 11, 2022. Unit: %\n\n\nPay half and half: 38.2%\nMen 70%, women 30%: 25.6%\nMen 60%, women 40%: 18.1%\nMen pay the full amount: 12.3%\nWomen pay more: 3.6%\nWomen pay the full amount: 2.2%\n\n\n\noriginal post: here\n\n\n\n\n1. Oh I hate this\n\n\n\n\n2. I can understand 50-50 if they're students dating using their parents' allowance\n\nBut after that ha... Seriously regardless of whether you earn a lot or not, this is tooo tiring\n\nJust don't date at this point, only date if you're willing to sacrifice\n\n\n\n\n3. Women usually earn less, don't they? Plus, there are the costs of pampering too. It is women whose careers end once they get married and have kids. I really don't understand why women absolutely have to split the expenses 50-50. And the comments are just... ugh..\n\n\n\n\n4. It seems people feel a sense of resistance because in our country, the end result of a 50-50 relationship is ultimately a 50-50 marriage.\n\nKorean men don't split housework and childcare 50-50 right?\n\n\n\n\n5. If you're not willing to go 50-50 after we marry each other, then don't date me\n\n\n\n\n6. In this era, we don't necessarily need to date nor marry. Only the people okay with 50-50 should do it\n\n\n\n\n7. No but how can't we do 50-50 in dates????? I don't understand the sentiment here\n\n\n\n\n8. I also don't understand why I need to split my money in half to date a Hannam\n\n\n\n\n9. That's why kids nowadays have stopped dating\n\n\n\n\n10. Maybe this only applies to kids... Because I've never seen a couple over 30s doing 50-50\n\n\n\n\nNew post\n\nNext Post\n\n\n\n\n✉ PC Stories",
  "title": "[theqoo] DUTCH PAY WHICH HAS BEEN FULLY ESTABLISHED IN THE KOREAN DATING SCENE",
  "updatedAt": "2026-05-04T16:36:43.866Z"
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