Remote control system, on-vehicle equipment and remote control method

The invention relates to a remote control apparatus for achieving remote control of an on-vehicle equipment (20), in accordance with a request received from a terminal other than the on-vehicle equipment (20), wherein a request receiver portion 101 receives control content from a stationary-type terminal 30 1 or a portable-type terminal 302, thereby registering it into a control information DB 105, while corresponding it to ID information of a user thereof. Upon receipt of the ID information from the on-vehicle equipment 20, a control information transmitter portion 102 transmits the control information depending upon the control content, being registered in the control information DB 105 corresponding thereto, to the on-vehicle equipment 20. With this, the on-vehicle equipment 20 is controlled in accordance with the control content, which was received from the user in advance, remotely.