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  "description": "By the time a working adult brings fear to a job, they have compressed it into something the workplace will accept. The manager sees the currency and misses the fear.",
  "path": "/newsletter/your-report-isnt-difficult-theyre-afraid",
  "publishedAt": "2026-05-26T00:00:00.000Z",
  "site": "at://did:plc:igunvse2uemkwmci3igoxhu5/site.standard.publication/self",
  "tags": [
    "truth-ladder",
    "fears"
  ],
  "textContent": "Julian joined the team as a project manager. He was responsive and demonstrated strong interpersonal skills. On paper, he appeared to be the ideal candidate.\n\nAfter a few weeks, the team became overwhelmed by frequent check-ins, excessive questions, and Julian's involvement in areas outside his responsibilities. It appeared he was unclear about role boundaries. I thought that implementing a more detailed RACI chart (who is responsible, accountable, consulted, and informed for each task) could help clarify expectations. But there are so many small activities and decisions a team has to make that it quickly becomes exhausting to populate the RACI chart and keep adding to it if the problem lies beyond a lack of formal definitions.\n\nBy that point, Julian and I had held several one-on-one meetings and worked through some challenging situations together. This shared experience allowed me to ask what was driving his intensity.\n\nHe told me about a project at his previous company. He had trusted the team and stepped back. People did not show ownership. The project fell apart, and he carried the blame.\n\nHe was not micromanaging the team because he doubted their abilities. Rather, his previous experience—where he assumed the team would fulfill their responsibilities and was ultimately held accountable for their failure—made him determined not to repeat that mistake.\n\nThat moment, when Julian explained what he was truly managing against, exemplifies what I mean by Fears.\n\nThe five rungs, briefly\n\nA few weeks back, I shared the Truth Ladder, which describes five levels for really getting to know the people you manage.\n\nRole — what they do.\n\nRange — what they're capable of.\n\nDrive — what makes them lean in.\n\nHorizon — where they're trying to get.\n\nFears — what would make them quit, freeze, or hide from you.\n\nMost managers stop at Drive. But most management failures I’ve seen start at Fears, when something on rung 5 is unknown to the manager.\n\nFear doesn't show up as fear\n\nThe mistake here is expecting fear to look obvious, like visible distress or avoidance, or someone clearly out of their depth. If it were that clear, the job would be easy.\n\nBy the time someone brings fear to work, they’ve usually turned it into something the workplace accepts. For Julian, it was over-control. Sometimes it’s decision paralysis that looks like caution, a polished answer in a meeting, or agreeing in the room but doing something different later.",
  "title": "Your Report Isn't Difficult. They're Afraid."
}