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  "path": "/savage-love/2026/02/24/48344725/savage-love-out-with-it",
  "publishedAt": "2026-02-24T21:32:00.000Z",
  "site": "https://www.portlandmercury.com",
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  "textContent": "\"I had an affair with our mutual boss a long time ago... does my hubby need to know?\"\n\nby Dan Savage I have a complicated question. I’m a woman in my 30s who has been married for a few years to my husband. We are very much in love and have a wonderful relationship. We met when I was in college, and worked at the same place together. Eventually, we became friends. We maintained a long-distance connection after I moved away, we fell in love, and then the rest is history. But during the time that we were friends, I had a mildly physical, mostly emotional affair with our boss, who was much older than us and married at the time. The boss and I never had sex. We only made out a few times and exchanged dirty messages. This didn’t last very long. By the time my husband and I were actually dating, my affair with my boss had been over for years, so there was never any overlap between…\n\n [Read more ]",
  "title": "SAVAGE LOVE: Out With It"
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