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Resources to aid understanding someone else's perimenopause / menopause

Home [Unofficial] April 14, 2026
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I asked for reading recommendations, for a partner of someone who is going through the perimenopause / menopause.

I got a lot of responses; thank you.

I have included below those which seemed most relevant, for me to follow up on them. Apologies if I didn’t include your particular suggestions.

I received quite a lot of advice too; thank you.

Reading suggestions

Books

  • “Burning Up, Frozen Out” by Joe Warner and Rob Kemp
  • “Menopause Manifesto” by Dr Jen Gunter (several recommendations for this)
  • “Perimenopause Power” by Maisie Hill
  • “Woman on Fire” by Sheila de Liz (multiple recommendations)
  • anything by Dr Louise Newsome

Blogs and microblogs

  • Trans experience of the menopause by Quinn Rhodes
  • Two posts by Sundial: “Perimenopause hit me like a brick” and “Perimenopause: My HRT Journey”
  • “Nobody told me about the way menopause restructures marriage. Here’s what I wish I knew then.”
  • Ben’s toots

Thayer said:

I often help men understand their partners’ journeys as part of my therapy & coaching as it really affects men as well

Podcasts

  • “Body of Evidence”, including this episode
  • “What’s Up Docs?”, including this episode

Videos

  • “BDSM and the menopause”
  • a Davina McCall documentatary (possibly this one)

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