Resources to aid understanding someone else's perimenopause / menopause
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April 14, 2026
I asked for reading recommendations, for a partner of someone who is going through the perimenopause / menopause.
I got a lot of responses; thank you.
I have included below those which seemed most relevant, for me to follow up on them. Apologies if I didn’t include your particular suggestions.
I received quite a lot of advice too; thank you.
Reading suggestions
Books
- “Burning Up, Frozen Out” by Joe Warner and Rob Kemp
- “Menopause Manifesto” by Dr Jen Gunter (several recommendations for this)
- “Perimenopause Power” by Maisie Hill
- “Woman on Fire” by Sheila de Liz (multiple recommendations)
- anything by Dr Louise Newsome
Blogs and microblogs
- Trans experience of the menopause by Quinn Rhodes
- Two posts by Sundial: “Perimenopause hit me like a brick” and “Perimenopause: My HRT Journey”
- “Nobody told me about the way menopause restructures marriage. Here’s what I wish I knew then.”
- Ben’s toots
Thayer said:
I often help men understand their partners’ journeys as part of my therapy & coaching as it really affects men as well
Podcasts
- “Body of Evidence”, including this episode
- “What’s Up Docs?”, including this episode
Videos
- “BDSM and the menopause”
- a Davina McCall documentatary (possibly this one)
Discussion in the ATmosphere