Obtaining Monero through Litecoin?

Hi, Welcome to Monero! You have described exactly what I would recommend for beginners. Trocador is the right choice and I recommend using the website as I have found that there are worse rates inside of CakeWallet. It is always scary the first time you use crypto, but you have found the right workflow. Yes, there is no harm in using Tor. Yeah, RetoSwap is not there for people that just want to dip their toes in, yet, unfortunately. One thing that I would do differently is to buy Litecoin on an exchange like Kraken then send it from Kraken to your Litecoin address in CakeWallet, rather than buying it straight in CakeWallet. Both methods are KYC, I just think it may be better to directly use a reputable service like Kraken. It will probably be fine to do it in Cake, this is just how I would buy the litecoin. LMK if you have any questions I will surely answer them, no matter how small or ignorant they seem.