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  "textContent": "_Welcome back to Minor Dilemmas, where a member of Defector's Parents Council will answer your questions on surviving family life. Have a question? Email us atminordilemmas@defector.com._\n\n_This week, Justin answers a question about the choice to have or not have kids._\n\n* * *",
  "title": "How Do We Decide To Have A Baby If We’re On The Fence?"
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