{
  "$type": "site.standard.document",
  "bskyPostRef": {
    "cid": "bafyreiciz7jxlg5w3fzjmnbqzstxwwmvautb65rxo3nvnuvjuhd3n4qt3m",
    "uri": "at://did:plc:ffyfov3xy6shybcwf7hgoqda/app.bsky.feed.post/3mnezmp2ibdr2"
  },
  "path": "/blog/book-suicidal-empathy-by-gad-saad/",
  "publishedAt": "2026-05-31T17:00:00.000Z",
  "site": "https://peterspath.net",
  "textContent": "## Why read the book?\n\nGad Saad wrote Suicidal Empathy: Dying to Be Kind. He is an evolutionary psychologist who studies how bad ideas spread. In this book he explains how empathy, a useful human trait, has become dangerous when it grows too strong and points in the wrong direction. Saad shows how Western societies now favour criminals, illegal migrants, and certain identity groups over their own citizens and victims. He links this to soft-on-crime policies, open borders, and demands for endless tolerance.\n\nThe book builds on his earlier work about harmful ideas that damage clear thinking. Saad argues that when empathy overrides reason and self-preservation it becomes suicidal. He gives many real examples from recent years and ends with ways to protect society from this problem. The book is direct and easy to follow.\n\n## Favourite quote\n\n> A society dies when it cares more about exhibiting infinite tolerance and empathy than invoking its survival instinct.\n\n—Gad Saad\n\n## What I Loved\n\nSuicidal Empathy gives a clear warning about a real danger in modern life. Saad explains how empathy started as a good thing that helped people survive in groups. He shows how it has turned into a problem when it makes leaders and citizens ignore danger and favour those who harm others. The book points out how this shows up in courtrooms, schools, and government policies.\n\nSaad talks about the harm caused when people feel they must always side with the offender rather than the victim. He asks why societies weaken themselves in the name of kindness. The writing is sharp and honest. Saad uses strong examples without holding back. Readers see how the same pattern appears in many different areas of life.\n\nThe final chapter offers practical steps to regain balance. The book makes you think about where empathy should stop and reason should take over.\n\n## Key Takeaway\n\nEmpathy is good in the right amount and directed at the right people. When it becomes excessive and irrational it destroys the society that practises it.",
  "title": "Suicidal Empathy by Gad Saad"
}