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"textContent": "> **āThere __is__ no corner to turn!ā**\n\nš²\n\nSuch a simple, but profound observation, related to me by a client (thank you for letting me share š)\n\nA philosophy to live by, even.\n\nBecause, how much of our lives do we spend with this invisible belief driving all our behaviours?\n\n * Raising children⦠_itāll be better when Iāve turned the corner._\n * Advancing through a career⦠_itāll be better when Iāve turned the corner._\n * A financial situation⦠_itāll be better when Iāve turned the corner._\n * Relationship difficulties⦠_itāll be better when Iāve turned the corner._\n * Mental health issues⦠_itāll be better when Iāve turned the corner._\n * Spiritual growth⦠_itāll be better when Iāve turned the corner._\n\n\n\nWeāre _so_ focusedāinnocently, I must addāon tomorrow being better than today, that we donāt actually get to live life!\n\nā\n\nTomorrow is just a thought. Itās not actually a thing.\n\nYou donāt **_ever_** get to experience it. Thatās just a trick of the mind; itās ego, dangling ānot thisā in front of you like a carrot on a string that youāll never reach.\n\nIndeed, itās this comparison with what-can-never-be (an idea of perfection) that keeps us miserable and stuck and makes reality appearāto the mind, at leastādull, when held up against this fantasy.\n\nItās a game you canāt win.\n\nSo next time you catch the mind wishing your life away, just remember: this is it. This is what I get.\n\nTHISāright here, right nowāis life!\n\nBy all means take action (you canāt not do, really) but do it from this place of understanding. Itās got a very different feel to it.\n\nThere _is_ no corner to turn.\n\nYouāre already there.\n\nš\n\nGiles\n\nSIGN UP FOR THE DAILY REMINDERS newsletter\n\nWant to start __your__ days with helpful, insightful content like this? The Daily Reminder is a quick, lighthearted email that arrives in your inbox, to help keep you grounded in reality, so that you get to __āThink less, and live more.ā__\n\n __āThey feel like a moment of stillness in a world of madness.ā ~__ Neil, UK\n\n __āOne of those small things with big impact. Honestly, just sign up!ā__ ~ Paula, UK\n\nGET YOURS NOW\n\n**Related**\n\nThis is itOh how the mind detests the actual experience of the things it looks forward to šThe Daily RemindersGiles P Croft\n\nMinds are weird. Why not opt out?",
"title": "There is no corner to turn",
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