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"description": "Let's call mind out on one of its most nonsensical arguments, shall we? š¤Ø",
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"āBut my mind has been quite helpful recently!āThe thing is, it *would* say that, wouldnāt it? š¤The Daily RemindersGiles P Croft",
"Canāt make up your mindMaking decisions: when to use āFree-flow modeā šThe Daily RemindersGiles P Croft"
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"textContent": "__āAll of your emails hit the mark. Some hit THE spot!__\n__This is a good one Giles, very good indeed šā__\n~ Cam (Subscriber)\n\nGet YOUR Daily Reminders\n\nOh minds, how I do love them.\n\nSo keen are they to fight their corner (because they're in charge, yeah?) that they'll do _anything_ to justify their input and their worth.\n\nIt doesn't bear thinking about ā the number of conversations I have had with clients (or more often not-clients, because this one's the mental equivalent of the Great Filter ā it brings the shutters right down on exploration) that included a variation of a statement that began:\n\n> _āBut if I ignore my thinkingā¦ā_\n\n[insert Bad Thing Happening⢠here]\n\nš\n\nFirst on its list of arguments is _āā¦I won't get anything done!ā_ which is just _ridiculous_.\n\nThe mind says:\n\n> š¦š£ļø: _I keep you motivated. I come up with the good ideas. I do all the hard work. I get you to take action._\n\nThe corollary of which is:\n\n> š¦š£ļø: _If you stop paying attention to me and doing what I say, then you will be unmotivated, out of ideas, lazy and apathetic._\n\nBut it takes the very lightest of observation to discover that it's actually the _opposite!_\n\nJust think back to, or better still, notice, the next time you have a good idea. It will come to you via the _medium_ of thought (because we can't experience anything else) but it will have a certain characteristic to it: it'll be new.\n\nYou've been batting away at some problem or otherāmulling it over, trying to figure it out, brainstorming solutions, trying to find a way forwardāand getting nowhere.\n\nAnd then⦠inspiration strikes!\n\nšÆ\n\nIt doesn't have to be like a flash of lightning or Moses delivering tablets of stone to you or anything, it's just a fresh take on things. A perspective you'd not seen before.\n\nNow, here's the question that I want you to slow down and answer, honestly:\n\nš¤\n\nDid āyouā do that ā did āyouā come up with it?\n\nReally??\n\nI say āhonestlyā because it takes a little humility (something the mind is not good at) to relax into the inconvenient truth that no, āyouā did _not_ come up with that new idea.\n\nOne minute it wasn't there, and the next minute it was.\n\nOh, for sure, you did _loads_ of analysis and pondering _before_ it happened (and if your mind is anything like mine, you'll have had a fair bit of self-satisfied thinking _after_ it happened too), but are you open to the idea that none of that analysis actually _caused_ the fresh new ideaāsomething you could call an āinsightāāto arrive?\n\nš\n\nIn fact, I'm willing to bet that if you _did_ turn your attention to this matter and either examine past experiences or be a bit more aware of ongoing situations, you'd notice that āgood ideasā tend to happen under a number of commonly-reported situations:\n\n * In the shower\n * Waking up/falling asleep\n * Driving\n * Out in nature\n * Engrossed in conversation\n * Focused on something creative\n\n\n\nā¦all of which have one thing in common: **you're _not_ busy analysing stuff.**\n\nYour mind's _not_ fixated on the problem. The mind's not even there! (Certainly not the bit that makes out like it's driving the bus.)\n\nSo when it comes to the _āā¦I won't get anything done!ā_ argument, we can see it's actually more like:\n\n> š: _Life keeps you motivated. Presence comes up with the good ideas. Wisdom does all the hard work. Taking action is your essential nature._\n\nAnd:\n\n> š¦: _If you carry on paying attention to the mind and doing what it says, then you will constantly get in the way of that natural process, immediately stifle good ideas, feel lazy, and remain stuck._\n\nWhich is why it's perfectly ok to ignore your thinking.\n\nAnd you'll only see this for yourself, when you give it a go.\n\nš\n\nGiles\n\nSIGN UP FOR THE DAILY REMINDERS newsletter\n\nWant to start __every__ day with helpful, insightful content like this? The Daily Reminder is a quick, lighthearted email that arrives in your inbox every morning, to help keep you grounded in reality, so that you get to __āThink less, and live more.ā__\n\n __āThey feel like a moment of stillness in a world of madness.ā ~__ Neil, UK\n\n __āOne of those small things with big impact. Honestly, just sign up!ā__ ~ Paula, UK\n\nGET YOURS NOW\n\n### Related\n\nāBut my mind has been quite helpful recently!āThe thing is, it *would* say that, wouldnāt it? š¤The Daily RemindersGiles P Croft\n\nMore mind-nonsense.\n\nCanāt make up your mindMaking decisions: when to use āFree-flow modeā šThe Daily RemindersGiles P Croft\n\nThe two modes of thinking we have at our disposal.",
"title": "āBut if I ignore my thinkingā¦ā",
"updatedAt": "2026-04-25T07:57:57.762Z"
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