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  "description": "Easy enough to avoid, but you have to spot it first 🔎",
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  "textContent": "Let's face it, pretty much everything in life comes down to relationship. Whether it's at home, in the workplace, online, or just in our heads, we have interactions with other people all the time.\n\nWhich means disagreements, of course.\n\nDisagreement isn't bad _per se_ (there's no learning, no growth without being wrong about stuff and having our beliefs challenged), but it can become problematic when it's habitual (posing as an insurmountable obstacle), or when it regularly escalates to hostility.\n\n### This post is for subscribers only\n\nBecome a member to get access to all content\n\nSubscribe now",
  "title": "How arguments start",
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