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  "publishedAt": "2026-03-09T19:31:00.000Z",
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  "textContent": "\n\n\n\nWhen news of a movie with sex scenes drops, suddenly, there's a very loud debate on whether or not we should have sex in film and TV at all.\n\nThis puritanical, censorship-driven conversation is one I would usually ignore, but it seems as if it is gaining steam with every new release.\n\nSo, I think it's time we state the obvious for once and for all...\n\nIt does not matter if sex scenes move the plot forward. They are added by the director and writer; they are there for adults or sometimes even just for vibes. They are a singular part of a vast artistic medium, and if you don't like them, look away.\n\nSex scenes are coming back to movies in a big way.\n\nIf you don't like it, then just avoid them. But don't try to eliminate them from Hollywood, because as studios try to get adults back to them, they know sex sells.\n\nAnd sometimes people just want to show up and see two hot people get baked and get it on on the biggest screen possible.\n\nLet's dive in.\n\n* * *\n\n### Sex Scenes Are Making Their Way Back\n\n\n\n\nIn an era where streaming data prioritizes \"watch time\" and \"broad appeal,\" the return of the R-rated movie for adults that has sex in it is on the way back.\n\nPeople want to get your eyeballs on screen, and they know sometimes that takes a little flesh.\n\nFilmmakers are realizing that to get people back into theaters, they need to offer something the sanitized, algorithm-friendly TV landscape won't: raw, unfiltered human connection.\n\nAnd on streaming, they know sometimes people want to watch something steamy in the privacy of their own homes.\n\nThere are so many reasons to have sex scenes in your movies and TV shows, not just to get people talking.\n\nA sex scene can communicate power, desperation, or a shift in a relationship dynamic in thirty seconds better than five pages of dialogue.\n\nIn films like _Queer_ or _Challengers_ , the intimacy is the lens through which we understand the characters' internal struggles and ideas.\n\nAnd in thrillers like _Black Swan, Lust Caution_ , and _Love Lies Bleeding,_ sex takes us into a world we've never been to and unleashes something euphoric or dangerous.\n\nSometimes these scenes are just fun, and sometimes they're for the plot.\n\n### Movies and TV Are Not Just Plot\n\n\n\n\nThe typical refrain we hear online is that sex does not advance the plot, so why should it be in film and TV shows?\n\nThe plot is not why we watch movies and TV shows. Plot is just the stuff that happens, but it's not the soul of entertainment. If you were going to watch something that only had a plot, then why not just read the synopsis of a movie or TV show? Why experience it?\n\nThe reason is that we come to film and TV not just for entertainment, but to feel something.\n\nFilm and TV are our greatest artistic mediums. They are empathy machines that bring us into characters' lives and focus us on our own reactions to what's happening on screen.\n\nSex scenes have a lot of uses in these mediums. They can arouse us, disturb us, tease us, make us happy, and make us sad. They can do whatever the director and writer work out together. And if they're made ethically, then why are we trying to completely cut them out? What possible use could there be from stopping this stuff?\n\nWhen I go to an art museum, I stand in front of the paintings and sculptures that I feel move or interest me. If I don't like it, I keep walking. That's what I would suggest people who do not enjoy or want to see sex scenes should do.\n\nChange the channel. See something else. But cutting out the ability for an artist's true expression is antithetical to art.\n\n### Sex Scenes are Back\n\n\n\n\nWhen discussing the sex scenes in his movie, _Poor Things_ , Yorgos Lanthimos said, “It was a very intrinsic part of the novel itself, her freedom in everything, including sexuality.\"\n\nHe continues, saying, “It was very important for me to not make a film that was going to be prude because that would be completely betraying the main character. We had to be confident Emma [Stone] had to have no shame about her body, nudity, engaging in those scenes, and she understood that right away.”\n\nSex scenes have been a hot topic (pun intended) on film and TV over recent years. The rise of the role of the intimacy coordinator made it easier to discuss ethics, pressure, and even taste on film sets.\n\nIn a world where movies for adults are disappearing at a rapid pace, where everything gets PG-13 sanitized to be shipped overseas to prop up blockbuster budgets, sex scenes became a lighthouse, a signal that a project is meant for adults and was set apart from typical tentpole fair.\n\nWe need sex scenes in movies and TV because we need to make sure we still are making these things for adults. We need them because we have brilliant minds making things they think require them. That should be good enough.\n\nAnd if it's not... we can go back to the original point.\n\n### Sometimes Sex Does Advance Plot\n\n\n\n\nOkay, for everyone out there complaining that I'm lost in the sauce of these adult narratives, we should dig into the idea that sex can and does advance the plot in many different movies.\n\nAnd there are lots of lessons for writers and directors about when to use it to your advantage.\n\nLet's go over a few:\n\n  1. **Character Development:** Sex scenes can be used to explore the emotional and psychological aspects of characters. They can provide insight into their desires, vulnerabilities, and relationships, helping the audience to better understand and empathize with them. Think about a TV show like _Masters of Sex_ , where each person is defined by their relationship with sexuality and their continual exploration of the subject.\n  2. **Plot:** In some cases, sex scenes can be essential for advancing the plot or resolving conflicts. They may be used to show how characters' relationships evolve or change over time. Like in _Lust, Caution_ , we understand the passion for sex to be directly correlated with a spy's information and closeness to their subject. As it becomes hotter, we know she's in too deep.\n  3. **Realism** : Sex is a part of human life, and movies often aim to depict various aspects of the human experience. Think about how the sex scene changes in _When Harry Met Sally._.., as those two characters realize they are in love and want to be together.\n  4. **Artistic Expression** : Filmmakers may use sex scenes as a form of artistic expression. They can be a way to convey complex emotions, explore themes, or create a specific mood or atmosphere within the film. Sex in a movie like _Nymphomaniac_ explores Lars Von Trier's own inclinations and point of view on society.\n  5. **Social Commentary** : Some films use sex scenes to comment on societal issues, such as sexuality, gender dynamics, or power dynamics. Think about the sex in _Brokeback Mountain_ , which directly confronted society's hangups about homosexuality and helped provoke important conversations that brought us closer to equality.\n  6. **Sensuality** : In erotic genres, like romantic or erotic dramas, sex scenes are a central element of the storytelling because they're there to just make people horny. Think about _50 Shades of Grey_ , which existed purely to arouse and tease people. It's okay to go to movies to feel this way.\n\n\n\n### It's Not All Explicit Sex Scenes\n\n\n\n\nIt's important to note that I don't think all movies include explicit sex scenes, and the degree of explicitness can vary widely in movies where they choose to show sex.\n\nFilmmakers make choices based on their artistic goals.\n\nBut if we force these stories into a box, we're neutering expression in a way that makes life feel much more bland and boring.\n\nThese scenes are making their way back because people want more film and TV that echoes everyday life. They want to see the ups and downs, pun intended, of what it's like to be human and all the sexuality that goes along with it.\n\nGreat art makes us think about ourselves and not only the things we've seen but also the things we've imagined and even dreamed of feeling over a lifetime.\n\nSex scenes tap into that, and that's why I don't think they will ever be struck from movies or TV shows.\n\nThey don't have to do with the plot, they have to do with us.\n\n## Summing It All Up\n\nSex scenes in movies and TV serve various purposes and should never be forced out of or into places they do not belong.\n\nAs an audience, we should engage with sex scenes thoughtfully and as part of the broader cultural conversation.\n\nI assume these scenes and perspectives will evolve over time. And I hope the conversation stays civil throughout it. But censorship is never the answer in any form.\n\nLet me know what you think in the comments.",
  "title": "Sex Scenes Do Not Need To Move the Plot Forward — They're Allowed to Just Be Hot and Fun"
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