I’ve been dating a widower for years but I’m tired of still being a secret to his family – is he embarrassed by me?

DEAR DEIDRE: I KNEW dating a widower would bring challenges but, after three years together, I’m sick and tired of being hidden away like some kind of shameful secret. He recently flipped out when I innocently posted a photo of us together and it’s left me questioning our whole relationship. He’s 50, I’m 42 and...