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  "path": "/cognoscenti/2026/02/10/divorce-what-to-say-oona-metz",
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  "textContent": "Society has grown more accepting of the idea of divorce as a transition rather than a tragedy, writes Oona Metz. So, what should you say when your friend — or brother or aunt — announces their marriage is over?",
  "title": "When someone you know gets divorced: Condolences or congratulations?"
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